Sex and Love and Men and Women

Human relationships have always fascinated me. And the relationships we, as a culture, seem to be most interested in are the sexual unions. If we’re dating, we want to know what the dating partners are thinking, what we could say or do to get them to commit to us or have sex with us. If we’re married, we want to know how to keep love alive and thriving in the […]

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Success in Relationships

Success is something I’ve thought a lot about, and something we all want. But I think we haven’t really broken down the parts of what it means to be successful in life. Because really, success means happiness, and we’re not always sure what’s going to make us happy unless we do a bit of soul-searching. The Latin root of success is successus, which means “advance, coming up, a good result.” […]

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The Pleasure of Driving

Love, the Great Being that weaves through all things, sends us messages all the time. Constantly. Sometimes, when I’m in moments of awareness, it’s like I’m being bombarded, and I look to the heavens and say,¬†Yeah, I know, duh! But so many people, people who live in darkness and in their minds and in their confusion and fear, are not able to receive that love. They’re blind. It pops up […]

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Is Dating Like Buying a Car?

Last week I had to go car-hunting. My black sedan got hit pretty bad on the way home from work one day, so when I found out it was totaled, I knew I was going to have to make a big new-car decision. It had been a long time since I was able and ready to invest in one, and I was excited by the prospect—I could actually pick what […]

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Becoming Rooted

So many of us are cut off from our source, from the essence within us that knows things, feels things, trusts the knowledge within us. We are taught to strategize and manipulate and control. We are taught to overpower, to plan things out to get what we want. But we are part of nature, and nature doesn’t do this. Nature just grows. It moves through cycles. It withers at times, […]

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