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Cracking the Whip

C’mon, baby. I want to break you down. I want to show you what love is. This is how the dance goes. We move together. We slide. We slither. Everything is going well. But then, for some reason, you get a little doubt inside, and you move away from me. The music stops, mid-flow. What happened to you, darling? You started getting in your head, didn’t you? You started thinking […]

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Your Goodness Makes You Sexy

It was last year when I started doing some serious investigative work on sexiness, on what makes a person sexy. This was after I came to Jesus (come being the operative word), and started asking him some questions, started sorting through the muck we’d been taught for a hell of a long time about what sex means to people. I discovered a lot of things, so many that I’m going […]

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You Can’t Know What You Know Before You Know It: Relationship Lessons from a Yogini

“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” –Maya Angelou “Boss up and change your life. You can have it all, no sacrifice.” –Lizzo   When someone is not right for you, he or she will show you that again and again through actions. I don’t care what this person says, or what story you have in your head about how the whole relationship is going […]

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The Wise vs. the Wayward

Hey honey? I want to tell you something that bothers me. Something that really gets my goat. Something that has lain heavy on my heart for a really long time, and heavy on the hearts of so many people, but it just seems like there’s no easy fix, so we all just buck up and dance around the situation. The Bible seems to be written specifically for a man. I’m […]

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What You Believe Is in Your Body

Oh dear, kids, we have a lot to talk about, and I want to cover two things today. First,¬†beliefs.¬†We think that our beliefs lie in our minds, and they kind of do, but mostly, beliefs live in our body, and in our actions. I’m going to talk about this in a second. Second, patience. Oh. My. God. Things take time. Let me go into that later. So, let’s start with […]

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